The Science of Fun: How Play and Pleasure Rewire Your Brain for Magnetism
Most women have been sold a lie: that productivity is the pinnacle of success, and pleasure is a reward—something to be earned after a long day of grinding. But what if I told you that prioritizing fun and pleasure actually makes you more magnetic, more intuitive, and more in alignment with your deepest desires?
Working as an intuitive healer for years, people come in with a variety of issues they want to work on:
"Where am I headed in life?"
"I can't seem to attract more money"
"My life feels dull"
"I don't recognize this person in the mirror anymore"
"This isn't the life I want"
"Why am I blocking love?"
What I have come to conclude (through thousands of these case studies) is that people need to reconnect with their PLEASURE... But it can seem so far away.
Your brain is wired for pleasure, but modern life has dulled its ability to fully receive and integrate it. And pleasure isn't just reserved for sex play. With practice, pleasure can be seen and felt in our daily lives!
Let’s unravel the science behind pleasure and play—why they’re essential, how they rewire your brain for confidence and magnetism, and most importantly, how you can reclaim them starting today.
Dopamine: Your Brain’s Pleasure Currency
Dopamine is often called the "feel-good" neurotransmitter, but it’s really the brain’s anticipation chemical. It fuels your motivation, makes you crave certain experiences, and influences how much pleasure you actually feel. When you're stuck in a cycle of overworking, self-sacrificing, or neglecting your own joy, your dopamine pathways weaken. You become less sensitive to pleasure and more prone to burnout, dullness, and even anxiety.
This is when people start to seek help.
The fix? Intentional play. When you engage in pleasure-filled, exploratory, or spontaneous activities, dopamine floods your system, strengthening your brain’s ability to seek and fully experience joy.
If you're stuck in a nervous system loop where you can only see the negative, or you are unsure of what brings you pleasure, listen up.
For example, today I can feel myself moving toward burn-out: my stomach is tense, my breath is shallow. And I already planned ahead for a busy week by scheduling a friend night at a Lebanese Restaurant in SE Portland.
But I need a fix NOW.
So while I have other things I need to do for Spirit Collective today, I know I need fun more, or this blossoming call for excitment will turn further into anxiety
So I got really quiet and asked my body "what can we do that would be fun right now?"
Go pull some weeds, my body whispered.
Now this may not seem like fun for you, but I enjoy the peacefulness of tending to the front and back yard, touching earth, and changing the scene to a beautiful landscape. So you see, "fun" doesn't have to be YEEHAW, it can be simple pleasures that scratch the itch, in a pinch.
How Play Enhances Your Intuition and Attraction
Play isn’t just for children. Engaging in free-spirited, creative, or sensual play strengthens neural pathways that enhance intuition, relaxation, and confidence—all of which make you wildly magnetic to new opportunities, deep connections, and unexpected miracles.
When you let yourself play, your nervous system shifts from survival mode into expansion mode—a state where your energy field naturally pulls in what you desire. If you've been feeling stuck, stagnant, or disconnected from your pleasure, it's time to reawaken your brain’s natural attraction mechanism through play.
One of the quickest ways to recalibrate? A nervous system tune-up. Biofield tuning helps clear energetic blocks and restore your body’s natural ability to receive pleasure with ease. I offer biofield tuning sessions for people who want to stop feeling drained and start feeling radiant, relaxed, and receptive.
Before I started with sound healing, my body was pretty numb to most things except for stress. So it took some conscious practice of stepping back into my body and re-sensitizing myself to other emotions and feels.
The Pleasure-Magnetism Link: Why Fun Makes You More Magnetic
Magnetism is the energy of effortless attraction—and nothing makes you more magnetic than being fully in your pleasure. When you’re enjoying yourself, you vibrate at a higher frequency, which sends a clear signal to the universe: “More of this, please.”
Women who prioritize pleasure often experience:
More spontaneous opportunities (career, romance, creative ideas)
Stronger intuitive hits (trusting yourself becomes second nature)
An undeniable radiance and confidence that turns heads
Magnetism isn’t about forcing things to happen—it’s about being so lit up that things naturally gravitate toward you. The easiest way to do this? Schedule time for pleasure, every single day. Not as an afterthought, but as a non-negotiable priority.
On the day I decided I was birthing "Holy Harlot" into this world, things began to shift. Within a month I hit my biggest financial earning from Spirit Collective, brought a new lover into my life, and manifested both a Prada bag and a new Mac Desktop, for free.
I truly can attribute this to me making the scary decision to focus on Pleasure in my life.
You can make this decision too!
Pleasure as a Nervous System Reset
Many women struggle to access pleasure because their nervous systems are stuck in overdrive. If you've ever felt too exhausted, tense, or guilty to enjoy yourself, this is a sign that your body is craving regulation.
Here’s the key: Pleasure is not just a mindset—it’s a full-body experience. Your nervous system needs to feel safe before it can fully receive joy, love, and abundance.
You will have to begin pushing your own boundaries and limitations to explore what your Nervous System has previously deemed "too scary" or a "waste of time"
I really get a kick out of encouraging my clients to do something naughty.
Push yourself to be silly and flirty with life around you, just enough to challenge the current biochemisty that your Nervous System is operating at. BE BOLD.
When I was a bartender I got to explore being naughty a lot while still being safe. One of my favorite things to do was ask my boss for a raise every week. We got to the point where we would both laugh at my boldness. I did get a few raises, but being bold and pushing boundaries was more empowering than the raise.
Here are some fun places to start
Give a false name at the coffee shop
Wink at the gas station attendant
Retrieve the mail in sexy negligee
Tell someone how handsome/beautiful they are
Paint your boobies and stamp them on a canvas... and voila! Art!
Look into Ecstatic Dance Communities around you
Take a candle-lit boudoir shoot of yourself, find those good angles!
Need help? That’s where energetic healing comes in. Through psychic healings and nervous system realignments, I help women break free from old conditioning and reconnect with their pleasure centers. If you’re ready for a full-body shift, book a psychic healing session with me to restore your alignment and open up to more ease, flow, and fun.
How to Start Rewiring Your Brain for More Pleasure
Pleasure is a muscle—you have to train it. Here are three science-backed ways to strengthen your pleasure circuits today:
Micro-Doses of Play – Take 5 minutes to dance, daydream, doodle, or engage in sensual movement. Let go of the outcome and just feel.
Nervous System Pleasure Practices – Incorporate deep breathing, sound-making, and somatic movements to help your body feel safe enough to experience more pleasure. (My pleasure coaching sessions can guide you through this.)
Heal Your Energy Field – If your pleasure feels blocked, it’s often an energetic issue. Book a biofield tuning or psychic healing session to clear stagnation and reawaken your body’s natural pleasure receptors.
The Takeaway: Play Your Way Back to Power
Play is not frivolous—it’s foundational to your power, your pleasure, and your ability to magnetize what you desire. If you want to experience more ease, abundance, and joy, start by making fun and pleasure a daily ritual.
Want deeper support? Check out my YouTube channel, where I share free healings to help you regulate your nervous system and unlock more pleasure in your life. If you're ready for an even deeper transformation, book a pleasure coaching session, biofield tuning, or psychic healing today—because your pleasure is worth it.
It’s time to stop waiting for permission and start prioritizing the life that turns you on.
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