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Pleasure Seeking

Writer's picture: MaryLisa EmeryMaryLisa Emery

The Sacred Power of a Woman’s Pleasure


Ladies, let’s get one thing straight: Your body was made for pleasure.


Not as an afterthought. Not as a guilty indulgence. But as a divine directive.

Your body holds 8,000 nerve endings in your clitoris alone—with no other function but to bring you pleasure. Think about that. The cosmos designed your body with an entire system dedicated to ecstasy. No evolutionary loophole, no secondary purpose. Just pleasure for the sake of pleasure.


So why the hell have we been taught to ignore it, suppress it, or (worst of all) serve it up for someone else’s enjoyment before our own?


women dancing in pleasure

Your Womb Is a Creative Vortex, Not a Dumping Ground

The seat of your power—your womb—is the vortex through which life itself spirals into existence. It is where desire alchemizes into manifestation, where dreams take root, and where the universe whispers its secrets.


But too many women have been conditioned to treat their wombs as a storage unit for other people’s energy. Unwanted lovers, ancestral trauma, societal shame—it all clogs the channel, dimming your magic. And when you are disconnected from your own turn-on, your creative energy dims, your radiance dulls, and you start running on empty, trying to heal the world before you’ve even blessed yourself.


Most of us don't even know when we have become disconnected from our power.

So ask yourself these questions:

  • What did I do that was fun yesterday?

  • When was the last time I treated myself?

  • What is my favorite way to bring pleasure to my day?

  • What are 5 desires of mine, that only pertain to ME?

  • When did I last ask someone to "hold space" for me?

  • When was the last time I felt beautiful/sexy?


If these questions are hard to answer, I promise you, you're in the right spot.

Starting in March, I will be offering Pleasure Coaching to help connect you back to all of your powerful elements.



Enough. Your pleasure is not optional. It is your birthright. It is your power source. It is your revolution.


Pleasure as the Alchemy of Pain

Here’s the tantric truth they never taught you: Pleasure transmutes pain.

put my pleasure first

It moves it, breathes it, stretches it, and burns it into something new. Your body holds onto trauma, but pleasure can teach it to release. Your voice holds unspoken truths, but pleasure can coax them into sound. Your heart holds centuries of silenced longing, but pleasure can break the spell.


Pleasure isn’t about escape. It’s about reclamation. And the deeper you go, the more you unlock.

Why does our society emphasize pain?

On the News?

In Movies?

In our conversations with Friends?

Check yourself: is it easier to connect when you are in pain, when you have something dramatic happen to you? Do you feel more alive when things are in chaos? Are you addicted to stress hormones?


Our culture has programmed us to believe that only through suffering do we deserve love, success, or enlightenment. Look at the way we romanticize the "tortured artist" or the "selfless mother who gives up everything" or the "hardworking entrepreneur who grinds until they collapse." Even in spirituality, the idea of purification through suffering is rampant—pain is seen as a pathway to awakening, while pleasure is dismissed as indulgent or distracting.



But what if this is just another distortion? What if pleasure—not pain—is actually the key to our liberation? What if our nervous systems are wired for ecstasy, for deep sensual aliveness, for connection that expands instead of contracts?

The thing is, pleasure is vulnerable. It asks us to surrender, to trust, to be fully present. Pain is often easier—it just happens to us. But pleasure? We have to choose it. And that choice is radical.



This is exactly why work like Holy Harlot matters. Because reclaiming pleasure is not just about feeling good—it’s about unwinding centuries of conditioning that says we must suffer to be worthy. It’s about learning to channel the raw power of our bodies, our breath, our voice, our desires, without shame. It’s about breaking the addiction to pain and replacing it with something even more potent: the unapologetic, ecstatic embodiment of our own divine aliveness.

Here’s the tantric truth they never taught you: Pleasure transmutes pain.

It moves it, breathes it, stretches it, and burns it into something new. Your body holds onto trauma, but pleasure can teach it to release. Your voice holds unspoken truths, but pleasure can coax them into sound. Your heart holds centuries of silenced longing, but pleasure can break the spell.


Pleasure isn’t about escape. It’s about reclamation. And the deeper you go, the more you unlock.

woman glow up

Which is why I am inviting you into Holy Harlot.


Welcome to Holy Harlot—Your Erotic Reclamation

Holy Harlot is not just another pleasure coaching service. It is a portal. A summoning. A rebirth.

Inside Holy Harlot, I guide you through an electrifying, goddess-channeling, edge-pushing journey of pleasure liberation. This isn’t about surface-level self-care. It’s about quantum codes, somatic embodiment, sacred sound-making, and deep womb wisdom that restructures the way you hold power, magnetism, and ecstasy in your body.

Offerings Include:

The 10-Week 1:1 Immersion – A deeply personal, high-level initiation into your own divine pleasure, with daily realignments designed to keep you rooted in your turn-on. Think: tantric activation, intuitive power, and unshakable erotic sovereignty.

Pleasure Coaching Sessions – A chance to dip your toes into the waters of your own erotic reclamation. These sessions are designed to help you reconnect with your body, release blocks, and discover what truly turns you on.



Your Body Is the Temple—Ripe for Worship

A woman in her pleasure is a woman in her power. And a woman in her power does not heal from depletion. She radiates healing through her very presence. When you prioritize your own turn-on, your natural gifts—your intuition, your magnetism, your ability to transmute energy—flourish.


But let’s be clear—not everything will turn you on. And that’s the point. Your only question should be: Does this turn me on?

Not "should I?" Not "what will they think?" Not "is this productive?"

Does. This. Turn. Me. On?

Let your body be your guide. Let your desires be the wind in your sails. Let pleasure lead you to the life you were meant to live.


A New Agreement with Life

It’s time to rewrite the script, to forge new agreements that anchor you in pleasure and divine abundance. Try this one on:

"Life is eager to please me when I take the time to notice."

When you move from this truth, everything shifts. The universe becomes your lover, conspiring to turn you on, to delight you, to worship at your temple.

So, are you ready to claim what has always been yours?

Join Holy Harlot, and let’s awaken the fire inside you.

Because your pleasure is the pulse of creation itself. And it’s time you let it lead.

Doors opening soon. Get on the list. Get ready to rise.


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